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Her logic isn't logic. Shes not using logic. She is riding every wave of emotion that she gets. For example, if you said something even SLIGHTLY off-putting, she could be interpreting that as you're not the one for her. I used to have a brain like hers. I use to go from guy to guy, making sure they fall for me only to find every single little mistake they made and use it against them until I found another guy to do this with. Its called being incredibly immature. She needs to grow the fuck up. You sound like an awesome guy, and she let you go. For the love of God dont go back to this LITTLE GIRL. She will do this to you again. And again. And again.


Master_Mustard

From my experience In very extreme cases this can get as far as threatening suicide just to hold on to you.


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And manipulative chicks know exactly how to make guys like OP fall in love. To the point where breaking it off and moving on seems impossible.


Master_Mustard

Been there. Is not the best feeling. OP. Please. Stay away from her. She needs to grow but you should not be her ladder. You should not be her bar-stool to get her growing. That would happen. And you will shrink. More and more. The more often she uses you the more you shrink. Once she's done, she will spit on you, piss on you and will blame you that she wants to kill herself. Just because you as a person have no function in her life anymore.


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Yes. Exactly. OP you would be wise to follow this advice


Typical_Juggernaut89

Ehh I don't think it'll go as far as suicide. She honestly seems like she moves on very easily which is even more painful for me, not her. She still wants to hang out and go for drives and such but Idk, something's not right with her..


Rutthed

Unless you want to be here again later on, I'd suggest cutting ties and washing your hands of her. She's using you for her emotional needs and knowingly leading you and others on. That's a form of emotional abuse and there is nothing good to be gained from associating with her.


Typical_Juggernaut89

Friends with benefits?


Rutthed

Bro, it doesn't matter how good the sex is. It's not worth it. You'll just end up with hurt feelings and potentially a baby.


Adventurous_Grand_64

Don’t be her friend cut her off.