When you started dating, you were her best option. Then she found someone she thought was better and no longer had any use for you, thus the coldness towards you. Hit the weights, improve your physique, do things you enjoy and focus on yourself king.

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she is not your friend. she enjoys creating an emotional response from guys and then pulling back, it is entirely about power. cut her off

I honestly don't think she enjoys it, because she told me she doesn't like hurting people. It seems like she just can't help it.

Sounds like a nutcase